<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[subject results for "Family & Relationships"]]></title><description><![CDATA[subject results for "Family & Relationships"]]></description><link>https://gateway.bibliocommons.com/v2/libraries/dbrl/rss/search?query=%22Family%20%26%20Relationships%22&amp;searchType=subject&amp;origin=core-catalog-explore&amp;view=grouped</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2026 18:21:40 GMT</lastBuildDate><item><title><![CDATA[Strangers]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b>INSTANT #1<i> NEW YORK TIMES </i>BESTSELLER • “Burden’s searing, probing memoir explores . . . what she learned about intimacy and her own spirit.”—<i>People</i>​​</b><br><b>“A beautifully written instant classic. <i>Strangers</i> is gripping and heartbreaking and a must-read for every wife—and husband.”—Graydon Carter</b><br><b>“Asks us to examine life’s most perplexing questions: Can we see the invisible fault lines in a marriage or truly know the people closest to us?”—Lori Gottlieb<br></b> <br><b>FINALIST FOR THE NEW ENGLAND BOOK AWARD</b><br><i>It was a great love story, one for the ages. The speed of our beginning and the speed of our ending felt like matching bookends. They both came out of nowhere. He wanted it, he wanted me. And then he didn’t.</i><br>In March 2020, Belle Burden was safe and secure with her family at their house on Martha’s Vineyard, navigating the early days of the pandemic together—building fires in the late afternoons, drinking whisky sours, making roast chicken. Then, with no warning or explanation, her husband of twenty years announced that he was leaving her. Overnight, her caring, steady partner became a man she hardly recognized. He exited his life with her like an actor shrugging off a costume.<br>In <i>Strangers,</i> Burden revisits her marriage, searching for clues that her husband was not who she always thought he was. As she examines her relationship through a new lens, she reckons with her own family history and the lessons she intuited about how a woman is expected to behave in the face of betrayal. Through all of it, she is transformed. The discreet, compliant woman she once was—someone nicknamed “Belle the Good”—gives way to someone braver, someone determined to use her voice.<br>With unflinching honesty and profound grace, Burden charts a path through heartbreak to show the power of a woman who refuses to give up on love. <i>Strangers</i> is a stunning, deeply moving, compulsively readable memoir heralding the arrival of a thrilling new literary talent.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C11807111</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C11807111</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Burden, Belle]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/11807111980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>A Memoir of Marriage</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780593733325/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[London Falling]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b>#1 <i>NEW YORK TIMES </i>BESTSELLER • From the bestselling, prizewinning author of <i>Say Nothing</i> and <i>Empire of Pain</i>, a spellbinding account of a family devastated by the sudden death of their nineteen-year-old son, only to discover that he had created a secret life which drew him into the dangerous criminal underworld that lies beneath London’s glittering surface<br>“Another blockbuster feat of reportage. . . . I sprinted through this addictive book in three days and gasped more than once at the true story’s twists and turns.”<br>—<i>Esquire</i><br>A <i>NEW YORK TIMES </i>BEST BOOK OF THE YEAR SO FAR</b><br>In the early morning of November 29th, 2019, surveillance cameras at the headquarters of MI6, Britain’s spy agency, captured video of a young man pacing back and forth on a high balcony of Riverwalk, a luxury tower on the bank of the river Thames. At 2:24 a.m., he jumped into the river.<br>In a quiet London neighborhood several miles away, Rachelle Brettler was worried about her son. Zac had told her that he had gone to stay with a friend for the weekend, but then he did not come home. Days later, a police car pulled up and two officers relayed the dreadful news: Her son was dead.<br>In their unbearable grief, Rachelle and her husband, Matthew, struggled to understand what had happened to Zac. He had had his troubles, but in no way seemed suicidal. As they would soon discover, however, there was a lot they did not know about their son. Only after his death did they learn that he had adopted a fictitious alter ego: Zac Ismailov, son of a Russian oligarch and heir to a great fortune. Under this guise, Zac had become entangled with a slippery London businessman named Akbar Shamji and a murderous gangster known as Indian Dave. As the Brettlers set about investigating their son’s death, they were pulled into a different and more dangerous London than the one they’d always known, and came to believe that something much more nefarious than a suicide had claimed Zac’s life. But to their immense frustration, Scotland Yard seemed unable—or unwilling—to bring the perpetrators to justice. <br>In a bravura feat of reporting and writing, Patrick Radden Keefe chronicles the Brettlers’ quest, peeling back layers of mystery and exposing the seedy truths behind the glamorous London of posh mansions and private nightclubs, a city in which everything is for sale, and aspirational fantasies are underwritten by dirty money and corruption. <i>London Falling</i> is a mesmerizing investigation of an inexplicable death and a powerful narrative driven by suspense and staggering revelations. But it is also an intimate and deeply poignant inquiry into the nature of parental love and the challenges of being a parent today, a portrait of a family trying to solve the riddle not just of how their son died, but of who he really was in life.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C12097246</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C12097246</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Radden Keefe, Patrick]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/12097246980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>A Mysterious Death in a Gilded City and a Family&apos;s Search for Truth</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780385548540/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[They Left Us Everything]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b>Winner of the 2015</b> <b>RBC Taylor Prize</b><br><b>Winner of the 2016 Forest of Reading® Evergreen Award™ </b><br>After almost twenty years of caring for elderly parents—first for their senile father, and then for their cantankerous ninety-three-year-old mother—author Plum Johnson and her three younger brothers experience conflicted feelings of grief and relief when their mother, the surviving parent, dies. Now they must empty and sell the beloved family home, which hasn’t been de-cluttered in more than half a century. Twenty-three rooms bulge with history, antiques, and oxygen tanks. Plum remembers her loving but difficult parents who could not have been more different: the British father, a handsome, disciplined patriarch who nonetheless could not control his opinionated, extroverted Southern-belle wife who loved tennis and gin gimlets. The task consumes her, becoming more rewarding than she ever imagined. Items from childhood trigger memories of her eccentric family growing up in a small town on the shores of Lake Ontario in the 1950s and 60s. But unearthing new facts about her parents helps her reconcile those relationships with a more accepting perspective about who they were and what they valued.<p> </p><p><i>They Left Us Everything </i>is a funny, touching memoir about the importance of preserving family history to make sense of the past and nurturing family bonds to safeguard the future.</p>]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C1762292</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C1762292</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Johnson, Plum]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jan 2014 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/1762292980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>A Memoir</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780143191872/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Marriage at Sea]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b>THE RUNAWAY<i> NEW YORK TIMES </i>BESTSELLER <br><i><br></i>A<i> NEW YORK TIMES </i>TOP 10 BOOK OF 2025<i><br></i>ALSO NAMED ONE OF BARACK OBAMA’S FAVORITE BOOKS OF 2025 AND A BEST BOOK OF THE YEAR BY NPR<i>, VOGUE, TIME MAGAZINE, THE NEW YORKER, A</i>ND MORE<i><br></i><br>“This is nonfiction that reads like fiction – the best kind. Elmhirst’s retelling is a triumph, second only to the seemingly impossible feat of Maurice and Maralyn themselves. You won’t be able to put it down.” <i>– USA Today<br></i><br>“Remarkable… I found myself, alternately, holding my breath as I read at top speed, wandering rooms in search of someone to read aloud to, and placing the book facedown, arrested by quiet statements that left me reeling with their depth.” <i>– The New York Times </i><br><i><br></i>“Such an emotionally vivid portrait of a couple in isolation that I was shocked it wasn’t fiction. How could a writer get so deeply into the minds of two real people in such extraordinary circumstances? … So brilliantly depicted.” <i>– Elle</i><br>“A beautiful meditation on endurance, codependence, and the power of love. A dazzling book.” – Patrick Radden Keefe<br>“An enthralling, engrossing story of survival and the resilience of the human spirit.” —Bill Bryson<br>An instant <i>New York Times</i> bestseller, this is the electrifying true story of a young couple shipwrecked at sea: a mind-blowing tale of obsession, survival, and partnership stretched to its limits.<br></b><br>Maurice and Maralyn make an odd couple. He’s a loner, awkward and obsessive; she’s charismatic and ambitious. But they share a horror of wasting their lives. And they dream – as we all dream – of running away from it all. What if they quit their jobs, sold their house, bought a boat, and sailed away?<br>Most of us begin and end with the daydream. But in June 1972, Maurice and Maralyn set sail. For nearly a year all went well, until deep in the Pacific, a breaching whale knocked a hole in their boat and it sank beneath the waves.<br>What ensues is a jaw-dropping fight to survive in the wild ocean, with little hope of rescue. Alone together for months in a tiny rubber raft, starving and exhausted, Maurice and Maralyn have to find not only ways to stay alive but ways to get along, as their inner demons emerge and their marriage is put to the greatest of tests. Although they could run away from the world, they can’t run away from themselves.<br>Taut, propulsive, and dazzling, <i>A Marriage at Sea</i> pairs an adrenaline-fueled high seas adventure with a gutting love story that asks why we love difficult people, and who we become under the most extreme conditions imaginable.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C11256213</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C11256213</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Elmhirst, Sophie]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jan 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/11256213980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>A True Story of Love, Obsession, and Shipwreck</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780593854303/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Anxious Generation]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b>THE ACCLAIMED #1 <i>NEW YORK TIMES</i> BESTSELLER with over two million copies sold • A must-read for all parents: the generation-defining investigation into the collapse of youth mental health in the era of smartphones, social media, and big tech—and a plan for a healthier, freer childhood. • A cultural catalyst for the resulting $17.1 Billion Meta Settlement.</b><br><b>Named one of the best books of the year by <i>The Wall Street </i>Journal, The<i> New York Times Book Review, The Washington Post, Time, The Economist, New York Post</i>, and <i>Town & Country </i>• One of Barack Obama’s Favorite Books of the Year • Named finalist for the PEN Literary Awards<br>“With tenacity and candor, Haidt lays out the consequences that have come with allowing kids to drift further into the virtual world . . . While also offering suggestions and solutions that could help protect a new generation of kids.” —<i>Time<br></i></b> <br>After more than a decade of stability or improvement, the mental health of adolescents plunged in the early 2010s. Rates of depression, anxiety, self-harm, and suicide rose sharply, more than doubling on many measures. Why?<br>In <i>The Anxious Generation</i>, social psychologist Jonathan Haidt (pronounced "height") lays out the facts about the epidemic of teen mental illness that hit many countries at the same time. He then investigates the nature of childhood, including why children need play and independent exploration to mature into competent, thriving adults. Haidt shows how the “play-based childhood” began to decline in the 1980s, and how it was finally wiped out by the arrival of the “phone-based childhood” in the early 2010s. He presents more than a dozen mechanisms by which this “great rewiring of childhood” has interfered with children’s social and neurological development, covering everything from sleep deprivation to attention fragmentation, addiction, loneliness, social contagion, social comparison, and perfectionism. He explains why social media damages girls more than boys and why boys have been withdrawing from the real world into the virtual world, with disastrous consequences for themselves, their families, and their societies.<br>Most important, Haidt issues a clear call to action. He diagnoses the “collective action problems” that trap us, and then proposes four simple rules that might set us free. He describes steps that parents, teachers, schools, tech companies, and governments can take to end the epidemic of mental illness and restore a more humane childhood.<br>Haidt has spent his career speaking truth backed by data in the most difficult landscapes—communities polarized by politics and religion, campuses battling culture wars, and now the public health emergency faced by Gen Z. We cannot afford to ignore his findings about protecting our children—and ourselves—from the psychological damage of a phone-based life.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C9953442</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C9953442</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Haidt, Jonathan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2024 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/9953442980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780593655047/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Land and Its People]]></title><description><![CDATA[<P><B>AN INSTANT #1</B><I><B> NEW YORK TIMES</B></I><B> BESTSELLER</B></P><P><B>In this new collection, David Sedaris reflects on what it means to be a foreigner, a brother, a lifelong friend, in essays that are "among the best of his career" (</B><I><B>Publishers Weekly,</B></I><B> starred review).</B><br><B>"A welcome return to form for the much-awarded and much-loved humorist...Sedaris remains a national treasure." —</B><I><B>Kirkus</B></I><B> (starred review)</B><br> <br>In <I>The Land and Its People, </I>Sedaris investigates what it means to be a traveler, a brother, a lifelong friend. Trying on the role of caretaker after his boyfriend Hugh's hip-replacement surgery, he both succeeds and fails. He covers ground with his friend Dawn and challenges her to eat a truck tire. A ambivalent Duolingo bot becomes his unlikely confidante as he attempts to describe his family in a foreign language. Ever adding to his list of "Countries I Have Been To," he rides a horse named Tequila in Guatemala, buys a bespoke priest's cassock in Vatican City, and goes on safari in Kenya without taking a single photo.<br> <br>Time takes its toll: scrolling through his address book, he counts those he couldn't bear to outlive, and realizes how many are already gone. He is bitten by a dog and insulted by a wee train passenger. A woman on the street late at night either sexually harasses him or doesn't. It's easy to agree with the lady waving a sign that reads, "Enough Is Enough." And yet, life holds much to delight in: the massive testicles of a ram, a trip abroad with his sisters, a really excellent reptile video, a pair of well-made cotton underpants.<br> <br>Throughout these essays—at once acerbic and tender, playful and profound—Sedaris shows how much there is to marvel at when you keep your head up and your eyes open, observing with warmth and curiosity our fascinating human species and the lands we inhabit.</P>]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C12662393</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C12662393</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Sedaris, David]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/12662393980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>Essays</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780316265034/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Glad My Mom Died]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b>* #1 <i>NEW YORK TIMES</i> BESTSELLER * #1 INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER * </b><b>MORE THAN 3 MILLION COPIES SOLD!</b><BR> <BR><b>A heartbreaking and hilarious memoir by <i>iCarly </i>and <i>Sam & Cat </i>star Jennette McCurdy about her struggles as a former child actor—including eating disorders, addiction, and a complicated relationship with her overbearing mother—and how she retook control of her life. </b><BR>Jennette McCurdy was six years old when she had her first acting audition. Her mother's dream was for her only daughter to become a star, and Jennette would do anything to make her mother happy. So she went along with what Mom called "calorie restriction," eating little and weighing herself five times a day. She endured extensive at-home makeovers while Mom chided, "Your eyelashes are invisible, okay? You think Dakota Fanning doesn't tint hers?" She was even showered by Mom until age sixteen while sharing her diaries, email, and all her income.<BR> <BR>In <i>I'm Glad My Mom Died</i>, Jennette recounts all this in unflinching detail—just as she chronicles what happens when the dream finally comes true. Cast in a new Nickelodeon series called <i>iCarly</i>, she is thrust into fame. Though Mom is ecstatic, emailing fan club moderators and getting on a first-name basis with the paparazzi ("Hi Gale!"), Jennette is riddled with anxiety, shame, and self-loathing, which manifest into eating disorders, addiction, and a series of unhealthy relationships. These issues only get worse when, soon after taking the lead in the <i>iCarly</i> spinoff <i>Sam & Cat</i> alongside Ariana Grande, her mother dies of cancer. Finally, after discovering therapy and quitting acting, Jennette embarks on recovery and decides for the first time in her life what she really wants.<BR> <BR>Told with refreshing candor and dark humor, <i>I'm Glad My Mom Died</i> is an inspiring story of resilience, independence, and the joy of shampooing your own hair.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C7454561</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C7454561</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[McCurdy, Jennette]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 31 Jan 2022 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/7454561980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle/><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9781982185848/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sisters]]></title><description><![CDATA[<B>Raina Telgemeier's #1 <I>New York Times</I> bestselling, Eisner Award-winning companion to <I>Smile</I>!</B><P></P>Raina can't wait to be a big sister. But once Amara is born, things aren't quite how she expected them to be. Amara is cute, but she's also a cranky, grouchy baby, and mostly prefers to play by herself. Their relationship doesn't improve much over the years, but when a baby brother enters the picture and later, something doesn't seem right between their parents, they realize they must figure out how to get along. They are sisters, after all.Raina uses her signature humor and charm in both present-day narrative and perfectly placed flashbacks to tell the story of her relationship with her sister, which unfolds during the course of a road trip from their home in San Francisco to a family reunion in Colorado.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2040775</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2040775</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Telgemeier, Raina]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jan 2014 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/2040775980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle/><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780545540667/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Everybody Fights]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>A USA Today and Wall Street Journal bestseller!</strong></p><p><strong>Learn how to fight better and end your arguments with your partner feeling closer, more loved, and better understood.</strong></p><p>We take our cars in for oil changes. We mow our lawns and pull weeds. Why don't we do maintenance on our marriages? This relationship is the most important one we will ever have, so why not get better at it?</p><p>For the last several years, Penn and Kim Holderness of The Holderness Family have done the hard maintenance and the research to learn how to fight better. With the help of their marriage coach Dr. Christopher Edmonston, they break down their biggest (and in some cases, funniest) fights. How did a question about chicken wings turn into a bra fight (no, not a bar fight or a bra fight)? How did a roll of toilet paper lead to tears, resentment, and a stint in the guest bedroom?</p><p>With their trademark sense of humor and complete vulnerability, Penn and Kim share their 10 most common Fight Fails and how to combat them. Throughout the book, they offer scripts for how to start, continue, and successfully close hard conversations. Couples will emerge equipped to engage and understand, not do battle—and maybe laugh a little more along the way.</p><p>In Everybody Fights, couples will learn how to:</p><li>Use "magic words" for healthy conflict resolution</li><li>Address unspoken and unrealistic expectations</li><li>Banish the three Ds of unhealthy communication—distraction, denial, and delay</li><li>Carry individual baggage while helping your partner deal with theirs</li><p>Penn and Kim want you to know you're not alone. Everybody fights. Marriage is messy. Marriage is work. But marriage is worth it. Fight for it!</p>]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C5573771</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C5573771</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Holderness, Kim, Holderness, Penn]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2021 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/5573771980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>So Why Not Get Better at It?</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780785235743/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Between Them]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>From American master Richard Ford, a memoir: his first work of nonfiction, a stirring narrative of memory and parental love</p><p>How is it that we come to consider our parents as people with rich and intense lives that include but also exclude us? Richard Ford's parents—Edna, a feisty, pretty Catholic-school girl with a difficult past; and Parker, a sweet-natured, soft-spoken traveling salesman—were rural Arkansans born at the turn of the twentieth century. Married in 1928, they lived "alone together" on the road, traveling throughout the South. Eventually they had one child, born late, in 1944.</p><p>For Ford, the questions of what his parents dreamed of, how they loved each other and loved him become a striking portrait of American life in the mid-century. Between Them is his vivid image of where his life began and where his parents' lives found their greatest satisfaction. </p><p>Bringing his celebrated candor, wit, and intelligence to this most intimate and mysterious of landscapes—our parents' lives—the award-winning storyteller and creator of the iconic Frank Bascombe delivers an unforgettable exploration of memory, intimacy, and love.</p><p><br /></p><p>How does a son piece together the lives his parents lived before him, and the private life they lived only between themselves?</p><p><br /></p><li><b>Literary Nonfiction at Its Finest:</b> From the creator of Frank Bascombe, a masterfully crafted portrait of two ordinary people who lived, in their son's eyes, an extraordinary life.</li><li><b>An American Story:</b> Travel the back roads of the Great Depression and postwar South with Parker, a traveling starch salesman, and Edna, his spirited wife, as they build a private world on the road.</li><li><b>The Bonds of Family:</b> A tender and clear-eyed look at a long marriage, the fierce, insular love between two people, and the arrival of a late-born, only child who would change everything.</li><li><b>A Meditation on Memory:</b> Ford grapples with the questions every adult child faces—who were my parents, really?—in an eloquent exploration of how love endures even after a devastating loss.</li>]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2903442</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2903442</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Ford, Richard]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/2903442980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>Remembering My Parents</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780062661906/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Becoming Grandma]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b>The <i>New York Times</i> Bestseller<br>From one of the country’s most recognizable journalists: How becoming a grandmother transforms a woman’s life.</b><br>  <br>After four decades as a reporter, Lesley Stahl’s most vivid and transformative experience of her life was not covering the White House, interviewing heads of state, or researching stories at <i>60 Minutes</i>. It was becoming a grandmother. She was hit with a jolt of joy so intense and unexpected, she wanted to “investigate” it—as though it were a news flash. And so, using her <i>60 Minutes</i> skills, she explored how grandmothering changes a woman’s life, interviewing friends like Whoopi Goldberg, colleagues like Diane Sawyer (and grandfathers, including Tom Brokaw), as well as the proverbial woman next door.<br>Along with these personal accounts, Stahl speaks with scientists and doctors about physiological changes that occur in women when they have grandchildren; anthropologists about why there are grandmothers, in evolutionary terms; and psychiatrists about the therapeutic effects of grandchildren on both grandmothers and grandfathers.<br>Throughout <i>Becoming Grandma</i>, Stahl shares stories about her own life with granddaughters Jordan and Chloe, about how her relationship with her daughter, Taylor, has changed, and about how being a grandfather has affected her husband, Aaron.<br>In an era when baby boomers are becoming grandparents in droves and when young parents need all the help they can get raising their children, Stahl’s book is a timely and affecting read that redefines a cherished relationship.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2462378</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2462378</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Stahl, Lesley]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2016 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/2462378980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>The Joys and Science of the New Grandparenting</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780698148345/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Bettyville]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b><b><i>NEW YORK TIMES</i> BESTSELLER<br>FINALIST FOR THE NATIONAL BOOK CRITICS CIRCLE AWARD<br> “A beautifully crafted memoir, rich with humor and wisdom.” —Will Schwalbe, author of <i>The End of Your Life Book Club</i></b><br>“The idea of a cultured gay man leaving New York City to care for his aging mother in Paris, Missouri, is already funny, and George Hodgman reaps that humor with great charm. But then he plunges deep, examining the warm yet fraught relationship between mother and son with profound insight and understanding.” —Alison Bechdel, author of <i>Fun Home</i><br></b><br>When George Hodgman leaves Manhattan for his hometown of Paris, Missouri, he finds himself—an unlikely caretaker and near-lethal cook—in a head-on collision with his aging mother, Betty, a woman of wit and will. Will George lure her into assisted living? When hell freezes over. He can’t bring himself to force her from the home both treasure—the place where his father’s voice lingers, the scene of shared jokes, skirmishes, and, behind the dusty antiques, a rarely acknowledged conflict: Betty, who speaks her mind but cannot quite reveal her heart, has never really accepted the fact that her son is gay.<br>As these two unforgettable characters try to bring their different worlds together, Hodgman reveals the challenges of Betty’s life and his own struggle for self-respect, moving readers from their small town—crumbling but still colorful—to the star-studded corridors of Vanity Fair. Evocative of <i>The End of Your Life Book Club </i>and <i>The Tender Bar</i>, Hodgman’s <i>New York Times</i> bestselling debut is both an indelible portrait of a family and an exquisitely told tale of a prodigal son’s return.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C1813228</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C1813228</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Hodgman, George]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2015 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/1813228980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>A Memoir</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780698158450/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[The End of Your Life Book Club]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b>A profoundly moving memoir of caregiving, mourning, and love between a mother and her son—and about the joy of reading, and the ways that joy is multiplied when we share it with others.<br>“A graceful, affecting testament to a mother and a life well lived.” —<i>Entertainment Weekly</i>, Grade A<br></b><br>During her treatment for cancer, Mary Anne Schwalbe and her son Will spent many hours sitting in waiting rooms together. To pass the time, they would talk about the books they were reading. Once, by chance, they read the same book at the same time—and an informal book club of two was born. Through their wide-ranging reading, Will and Mary Anne—and we, their fellow readers—are reminded how books can be comforting, astonishing, and illuminating, changing the way that we feel about and interact with the world around us.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C859218</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C859218</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Schwalbe, Will]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/859218980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>A Memoir</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780307961112/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Child Called It]]></title><description><![CDATA[This book chronicles the unforgettable account of one of the most severe child abuse cases in California history. It is the story of Dave Pelzer, who was brutally beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother: a mother who played tortuous, unpredictable games—games that left him nearly dead. He had to learn how to play his mother's games in order to survive because she no longer considered him a son, but a slave; and no longer a boy, but an "it."<BR> <BR>Dave's bed was an old army cot in the basement, and his clothes were torn and raunchy. When his mother allowed him the luxury of food, it was nothing more than spoiled scraps that even the dogs refused to eat. The outside world knew nothing of his living nightmare. He had nothing or no one to turn to, but his dreams kept him alive—dreams of someone taking care of him, loving him and calling him their son.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C322571</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C322571</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Pelzer, Dave]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/322571980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>One Child&apos;s Courage to Survive</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780757396076/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Connected Child]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><b>"An extremely useful parenting handbook... truly outstanding ... strongly recommended."<br/>
—Library Journal (starred review)</b></p> <p><b>"A tremendous resource for parents and professionals alike."<br/>
—Thomas Atwood, president and CEO, National Council for Adoption</b></p> <p>The adoption of a child is always a joyous moment in the life of a family. Some adoptions, though, present unique challenges. Welcoming these children into your family—and addressing their special needs—requires care, consideration, and compassion.</p> <p>Written by two research psychologists specializing in adoption and attachment, <i>The Connected Child</i> will help you:</p> <li>Build bonds of affection and trust with your adopted child</li> <li>Effectively deal with any learning or behavioral disorders</li> <li>Discipline your child with love without making him or her feel threatened</li> <p>"A must-read not only for adoptive parents, but for all families striving to correct and connect with their children."<br/>
—Carol S. Kranowitz, author of <i>The Out-of-Sync Child</i></p> <p>"Drs. Purvis and Cross have thrown a life preserver not only to those just entering uncharted waters, but also to those struggling to stay afloat."<br/>
—Kathleen E. Morris, editor of <i>S. I. Focus</i> magazine</p> <p>"Truly an exceptional, innovative work . . . compassionate, accessible, and founded on a breadth of scientific knowledge and clinical expertise."<br/>
—Susan Livingston Smith, program director,Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute</p> <p>"<i>The Connected Child</i> is the literary equivalent of an airline oxygen mask and instructions: place the mask over your own face first, then over the nose of your child. This book first assists the parent, saying, in effect, 'Calm down, you're not the first mom or dad in the world to face this hurdle, breathe deeply, then follow these simple steps.' The sense of not facing these issues alone—the relief that your child's behavior is not off the charts—is hugely comforting. Other children have behaved this way; other parents have responded thusly; welcome to the community of therapeutic and joyful adoptive families."<br/>
—Melissa Fay Greene, author of <i>There is No Me Without You: One Woman's Odyssey to Rescue Africa's Children</i></p>]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C145376</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C145376</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Purvis, Karyn B., Cross, David R., Sunshine, Wendy Lyons]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2007 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/145376980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780071509268/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Aging Out]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><b>Part of the <i>New York Times</i>' "Nonfiction Everyone Will Be Reading This Summer"</b><br><b>One of <i>LA Times'</i> "10 Books to Read in July"</b><br><b>An Amazon Editors' "Best Nonfiction of July" pick</b><br><b>A profoundly personal investigation into the current state of eldercare and what it means to grow old in America<br>"Schiller unpacks a complicated subject with curiosity and empathy...[A] deeply human portrayal of what it means to get older in a society unprepared to care for its most vulnerable."—<i>Publishers Weekly</i><br></b><br>Unlike many other cultures, our collective stance toward older people in the United States has long been one of casual avoidance and neglect. This attitude became brutally clear during the height of the COVID pandemic, when too many people saw elderly deaths not as tragedies but as foregone conclusions.<br>Like many of us, Lucy Schiller experienced this callousness firsthand when her grandmother passed away during the pandemic. In the wake of this trauma, propelled by equal parts grief and curiosity about her own fear of aging, Schiller embarked on an investigative journey to understand why the prospect of aging is so frightening and how being "old" in America intersects with class, race, disability, and public policy.<br>From profit-driven networks of care facilities to systemic failures in economic support, the future of older Americans looks increasingly uncertain. In<i> Aging Out</i>, Schiller reports this crisis, sharing the human toll of inadequate housing, health care, and community, while simultaneously excavating her own complicated relationship with aging.<br>Combining the incisive reporting of <i>Evicted </i>with the beautifully rendered introspection of <i>The Empathy Exams</i>,<i> Aging Out</i> is an intimate and unflinching exploration of what it means to age in this country and why Americans—including Schiller herself—are so terrified of getting old.</p>]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C12187985</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C12187985</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Schiller, Lucy]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/12187985980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>An Exploration of Caregiving, Community, and How Americans Grow Old</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9781250344533/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dogs, Boys, and Other Things I've Cried About]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><b>THE INSTANT #1 <i>NEW YORK TIMES</i> BESTSELLER!</p><p>From the social media superstar behind @SimonSits, Isabel Klee—known for her heartwarming tales of dog rescue—comes an utterly winning memoir about a twentysomething woman's search for true love in New York City and the dogs who helped her find it.</b></p><p>A Jersey girl by birth, Isabel Klee had always wanted to live in New York City. At age 20, she got her chance, ditching her college upstate and moving into a grungy basement apartment in Manhattan. Dog-obsessed since childhood, her first post-grad job was becoming an assistant to a dog photographer, and something clicked into place: a career focused on helping dogs was the new dream.<br />Isabel quickly found a passion for rehabilitating rescue dogs and helping them get adopted. At the same time, she was caught up in a whirlwind of friendships, parties, fickle boyfriends and grand romances, which she recounts in honest, tender, and sometimes devastating chapters about the search for love and belonging.<br />Isabel's first true love, though, was Simon, a fluffy puppy who'd been saved from the meat trade. As the highs and lows of her twenties hit Isabel in wave after wave, it was Simon who kept her grounded. Together, Isabel and Simon created a community of dog-lovers and a tight-knit group of friends pursuing their dreams.<br />In this honest and moving memoir, Isabel weaves together the stories of her foster dogs—and the challenges she helped them overcome—with tales of complicated relationships, hard decisions, and great loves in New York City, all leading to a happy ending not only for the rescue pups, but for Isabel herself.</p>]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C12164823</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C12164823</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Klee, Isabel]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/12164823980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>A Memoir</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780063451087/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Good Inside]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><b>INSTANT #1 <i>NEW YORK TIMES</i> BESTSELLER </b></p><p><b>An Instant<i> Wall Street Journal</i>, <i>USA Today</i>, and Indie Bestseller</b></p><p><b>"This book is for any parent who has ever struggled under the substantial weight of caregiving—which is to say, all of us. <i>Good Inside</i> is not only a wise and practical guide to raising resilient, emotionally healthy kids, it's also a supportive resource for overwhelmed parents who need more compassion and less stress. Dr. Becky is the smart, thoughtful, in-the-trenches parenting expert we've been waiting for!"—Eve Rodsky, <i>New York Times</i> bestselling author of <i>Fair Play</i> and <i>Find Your Unicorn Space</i></b></p><p><b>Dr. Becky Kennedy, wildly popular parenting expert and creator of @drbeckyatgoodinside, shares her groundbreaking approach to raising kids and offers practical strategies for parenting in a way that feels <i>good</i>.</b></p><p>Over the past several years, Dr. Becky Kennedy—known to her followers as "Dr. Becky"—has been sparking a parenting revolution. Millions of parents, tired of following advice that either doesn't work or simply doesn't feel good, have embraced Dr. Becky's empowering and effective approach, a model that prioritizes connecting with our kids over correcting them.</p><p>Parents have long been sold a model of childrearing that simply doesn't work. From reward charts to time outs, many popular parenting approaches are based on shaping behavior, not raising humans. These techniques don't build the skills kids need for life, or account for their complex emotional needs. Add to that parents' complicated relationships with their own upbringings, and it's easy to see why so many caretakers feel lost, burned out, and worried they're failing their kids. In <i>Good Inside,</i> Dr. Becky shares her parenting philosophy, complete with actionable strategies, that will help parents move from uncertainty and self-blame to confidence and sturdy leadership.</p><p>Offering perspective-shifting parenting principles and troubleshooting for specific scenarios—including sibling rivalry, separation anxiety, tantrums, and more—<i>Good Inside </i>is a comprehensive resource for a generation of parents looking for a new way to raise their kids while still setting them up for a lifetime of self-regulation, confidence, and resilience.</p>]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C7565453</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C7565453</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kennedy, Becky]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 31 Jan 2022 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/7565453980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780063159471/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Set Boundaries, Find Peace]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b><b>The instant <i>New York Times </i>bestseller<br>End the struggle, speak up for what you need, and experience the freedom of being truly yourself.</b></b><br>Healthy boundaries. We all know we should have them—in order to achieve work/life balance, cope with toxic people, and enjoy rewarding relationships with partners, friends, and family. But what do "healthy boundaries" really mean—and how can we successfully express our needs, say "no," and be assertive without offending others?<br>Licensed counselor, sought-after relationship expert, and one of the most influential therapists on Instagram Nedra Glover Tawwab demystifies this complex topic for today's world. In a relatable and inclusive tone, <i>Set Boundaries, Find Peace</i> presents simple-yet-powerful ways to establish healthy boundaries in all aspects of life. Rooted in the latest research and best practices used in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), these techniques help us identify and express our needs clearly and without apology—and unravel a root problem behind codependency, power struggles, anxiety, depression, burnout, and more.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C5810029</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C5810029</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tawwab, Nedra Glover]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2021 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/5810029980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780593192108/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Unexpected Journey]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b>INSTANT <i>NEW YORK TIMES </i>BESTSELLER<br>"A game changer for caregivers of loved ones with dementia.... This book will help millions of families, like hers, like yours, like mine, like everyone’s. It’s a book for our time.” —Maria Shriver<br> <br>From Emma Heming Willis, wife of Bruce Willis, a deeply personal and richly compassionate supportive guide that helps caregivers care for themselves while they navigate a loved one's dementia.<br> <br> AN OPEN FIELD PUBLICATION FROM MARIA SHRIVER</b><br>The day Emma Heming Willis’ husband, Bruce Willis, was diagnosed with frontotemporal dementia (FTD), all they were given was a pamphlet and told to check back in a few months. With no hope or direction, Emma walked out of that doctor’s appointment frozen with fear, confusion and a sense that her world had just fallen apart.<br>In fact, it had. Bruce and Emma had their story written, their future mapped out. Yet all those dreams crumbled with that diagnosis, and Emma felt alone and more isolated than ever. How would she care for her husband while parenting their young daughters?<br>At that devastating time, Emma just wanted someone who'd been through it to tell her, “This feels terrible right now. Your life is in shambles. But it’s going to be okay. Here are some things to think about and put in place so you cannot just survive but thrive.”<br>With <i>The Unexpected Journey</i>, Emma has written the book she wishes she’d been handed on the day of Bruce’s diagnosis: a supportive guide to navigating the complicated, heartbreaking, and transformative experience that is caregiving for your loved one. Weaving her personal journey as a care partner with the latest research and insights from the world’s top dementia, caregiving, and integrative experts she offers the guidance and wisdom caregivers everywhere so desperately need to hear, including:<br><li>A diagnosis isn’t just a label, it’s a starting point. It helps you better understand your person’s behavior and respond with more clarity and compassion.</li><li>Taking care of yourself is not optional; it's mandatory. It will make you a better care partner. It’s not selfish, it’s self-preserving.</li><li>You don’t have a choice about being on the dementia caregiving journey. But you do have a choice in terms of how you approach it and reframe it.</li><li>Caregivers are human so you aren’t always going to be patient and selfless. You have challenges and struggle with conflicting emotions and that’s okay. </li><br>Ultimately, <i>The Unexpected Journey </i>shows you how to care for yourself while doing one of the hardest, most heartbreaking jobs in the world. Because if you don’t take care of yourself, you are not going to be able to look after anyone else—especially your loved one with dementia.<br>For anyone caregiving for a loved one with any form of dementia, and even for those caregiving for other conditions, <i>The Unexpected Journey</i> shows that you are not alone. As Emma writes, “I know that no two caregiving journeys are the same, but we are connected by the same unchosen thread. It’s not an easy path for you, your loved one or your family. But I’m here to let you know that you are not alone, and, in time, you will find your footing, and a way forward."]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C11426051</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C11426051</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Emma Heming Willis]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jan 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/11426051980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>Finding Strength, Hope, and Yourself on the Caregiving Path</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780593833957/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Foreverland]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>"One of the first honest, moving and funny portrayals of a solid marriage I have ever read."</strong> <strong>—Jessica Grose,</strong> <strong>The New York Times</strong></p><p><strong>A Best Book of 2022 from The New Yorker</strong> <strong>and Chicago Tribune</strong></p><p><strong>An illuminating, poignant, and savagely funny examination of modern marriage from Ask Polly advice columnist Heather Havrilesky</strong></p><p>If falling in love is the peak of human experience, then marriage is the slow descent down that mountain, on a trail built from conflict, compromise, and nagging doubts. Considering the limited economic advantages to marriage, the deluge of other mate options a swipe away, and the fact that almost half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce anyway, why do so many of us still chain ourselves to one human being for life?</p><p>In Foreverland, Heather Havrilesky illustrates the delights, aggravations, and sublime calamities of her marriage over the span of fifteen years, charting an unpredictable course from meeting her one true love to slowly learning just how much energy is required to keep that love aflame. This refreshingly honest portrait of a marriage reveals that our relationships are not simply "happy" or "unhappy," but something much murkier—at once unsavory, taxing, and deeply satisfying. With tales of fumbled proposals, harrowing suburban migrations, external temptations, and the bewildering insults of growing older, Foreverland is a work of rare candor and insight. Havrilesky traces a path from daydreaming about forever for the first time to understanding what a tedious, glorious drag forever can be.</p>]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C6262565</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C6262565</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Havrilesky, Heather]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 31 Jan 2022 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/6262565980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>On the Divine Tedium of Marriage</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780062984494/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[All You Can Ever Know]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b>A NATIONAL BESTSELLER<br>This beloved memoir "is an extraordinary, honest, nuanced and compassionate look at adoption, race in America and families in general" (Jasmine Guillory, <i>Code Switch</i>, NPR)<br></b><i>What does it means to lose your roots—within your culture, within your family—and what happens when you find them?</i><b><br></b><br>Nicole Chung was born severely premature, placed for adoption by her Korean parents, and raised by a white family in a sheltered Oregon town. From childhood, she heard the story of her adoption as a comforting, prepackaged myth. She believed that her biological parents had made the ultimate sacrifice in the hope of giving her a better life, that forever feeling slightly out of place was her fate as a transracial adoptee. But as Nicole grew up—facing prejudice her adoptive family couldn’t see, finding her identity as an Asian American and as a writer, becoming ever more curious about where she came from—she wondered if the story she’d been told was the whole truth.<br>With warmth, candor, and startling insight, Nicole Chung tells of her search for the people who gave her up, which coincided with the birth of her own child. <i>All You Can Ever Know</i> is a profound, moving chronicle of surprising connections and the repercussions of unearthing painful family secrets—vital reading for anyone who has ever struggled to figure out where they belong.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C3781423</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C3781423</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chung, Nicole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2018 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/3781423980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>A Memoir</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9781936787982/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Love That Boy]]></title><description><![CDATA[<b>"[A]n eloquent, brave, big-hearted book…about the timeless anxieties and emotions of parenthood, and the modern twists thereon.” </b><br><b>—James Fallows, <i>The Atlantic</i></b><br><i>Love That Boy </i>is a uniquely personal story about the causes and costs of outsized parental expectations. What we want for our children—popularity, normalcy, achievement, genius—and what they truly need—grit, empathy, character—are explored by <i>National Journal’s</i> Ron Fournier, who weaves his extraordinary journey to acceptance around the latest research on childhood development and stories of other loving-but-struggling parents.]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2420500</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2420500</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Fournier, Ron]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2016 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/2420500980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>What Two Presidents, Eight Road Trips, and My Son Taught Me About a Parent&apos;s Expectations</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780804140492/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Before I Forget]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><b>“A powerful portrait of Alzheimer’s…marked by strong emotions and often bleak honesty.”<br> —<i>The Washington Post</i><br>“The vulnerability, courage, and honesty in <i>Before I Forget</i> are heart-opening. Fear can be paralyzing…yet B. and Dan beautifully demonstrate that there is a different way to approach this stealthy invader. Alzheimer’s needs to come out of the shadows, and this book is an important step.” </b><br><b>—Maria Shriver</b><i><br></i>Restaurateur, magazine publisher, celebrity chef, and nationally known lifestyle maven, B. Smith is struggling at 66 with a tag she never expected to add to that string: Alzheimer's patient. She’s not alone. Every 67 seconds someone newly develops it, and millions of lives are affected by its aftershocks. <br> <br>B. and her husband, Dan, working with <i>Vanity Fair </i>contributing editor Michael Shnayerson, unstintingly share their unfolding story. Crafted in short chapters that interweave their narrative with practical and helpful advice, readers learn about dealing with Alzheimer's day-to-day challenges: the family realities and tensions, ways of coping, coming research that may tip the scale, as well as lessons learned along the way. <br> <br>At its heart, <i>Before I Forget </i>is a love story: illuminating a love of family, life, and hope.</p>]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2302128</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2302128</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Smith, B., Gasby, Dan, Shnayerson, Michael]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2016 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/2302128980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>Love, Hope, Help, and Acceptance in Our Fight Against Alzheimer&apos;s</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9780553447132/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item><item><title><![CDATA[Addict in the House]]></title><description><![CDATA[<P><B>"This is a straightforward, rich resource for anyone who lives with, and loves, an addict."<BR /> —<I>Publishers Weekly</I><BR /> Everyone suffers when there's an addict in the family. Written by an expert in alcohol and drug addiction and recovery, this no-nonsense guide will help you understand the causes of addiction, end enabling behaviors, support your loved one's recovery, and learn how to cope with relapses.</B></P><P>If you're the family member of an addict, you may feel confused, guilty, and scared of doing the wrong thing. And when you don't know how to help, you may find yourself in a codependent role, trying so hard to keep your addicted loved one alive, out of jail, or emotionally appeased that you may actually prevent them from realizing they need help.</P><P>Drawing on her own personal experience with her brother's addiction, <I>Addict in the House</I> offers a pragmatic, step-by-step guide to dealing with a loved one's addiction, from accepting the reality of the disease to surviving what may be repeated cycles of recovery and relapse. You'll learn how to encourage your addicted loved one to get help without forcing it, and finally find the strength to let go of codependence.</P><P>With this revealing and straightforward book, you'll have the support you need to take an honest look at how addiction has affected the family, cope with the emotional hurdles of having an addicted family member, create and maintain firm boundaries, and make informed decisions about how to best help your loved one.</P>]]></description><link>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2880866</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S980C2880866</guid><category><![CDATA[EBOOK]]></category><category><![CDATA[eng]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Barnett, Robin]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2016 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>https://dbrl.bibliocommons.com/item/comment/2880866980</comments><format>EBOOK</format><subtitle>A No-Nonsense Family Guide Through Addiction and Recovery</subtitle><language>eng</language><image_url>https://secure.syndetics.com/index.aspx?isbn=9781626252622/MC.GIF&amp;client=573-443-3161&amp;type=xw12&amp;oclc=</image_url></item></channel></rss>